The Armstrong community reflects on past relationships and discusses the pros and cons of online vs. in-person dating for Valentine’s day.

Starbucks PDA can feel like an atomic bomb for single people this time of year. Seeing one Eskimo kiss sets off a chain of chemical explosions, sending singles down a path of relationship flashbacks.

Reflecting often leads to a headache of questions. Theoretical situations and tranquil feelings such as closure and rage resonate in the minds of singles. Learning to let go is a practice, but since it’s the season of love, what would you say to your ex?

Four of the ten students interviewed humbly said, “I hope you’re doing well, we ended on good terms.” The other six shared the truth. One student said, “I’m glad it’s over.” A young dual enrollment student would tell his ex, “you’re missing out buddy.”

Some students have never had an ex. Ally is a senior on campus and has been in her relationship since middle school. A sophomore named Giovanni said his relationship has lasted since high school. These two students dodged the illustrious online dating experience but also shared no desire to ever try online dating.

Of the 10 students interviewed, eight prefer in-person dating. Students prefer in-person dating because online profiles can be used to create a facade. The photo gallery of smiles, posture, and the person changes when you meet face to face. Giovanni put it in simple terms, “you see what they want you to see.”

Time is essential for college students regardless of whether they are dating online or in person. There are busy bees all around campus with deadlines racing through their minds. Time is currency to single students because classes, homework, jobs, and taking time for self-care have to be spent before forming a relationship. Although a relationship sounds nice to single students, it feels easier to veer away from a relationship until after graduation. Gabriella is a junior that decided to cut her losses short and stay single “unless he wants to sit next to me while I do homework.”

Being in the same space is important in forming a relationship with students on campus. Reading body language and hearing counterparts speak sets the tone for the relationship. A picture is worth a thousand words. Sharing space is out of this world. haring space is out of this world…Still, feeling blue? Call The 700 Club Hotline for a healing prayer.